Amazing opportunity for a betrayed wife


As many of you know who read my blog, I coach other women who are experiencing the pain and trauma of an affair with Anne and Brian Bercht.

Anne and Brian are professional affair recovery specialists. who’s guided, gentle approach has helped hundreds and hundreds of couples, and betrayed wives heal from the pain of an affair.

Whether you are looking to reconcile your marriage, or whether you have already turned away from that possibility, you as a betrayed partner will still need to heal, whether with or without your partner by your side.
They created a program specifically oriented towards the distinct needs of the betrayed spouse, called the “take your life back” retreat. I blogged about it a few posts back, so I will not reiterate to heavily what the program is about, but I do encourage you to visit their website at www.beyondaffairs.com

I know that the readers of this blog come from around the world. For those in Canada, and more specifically from Toronto, there is a retreat taking place this coming weekend April 12-14, 2014 in Toronto Canada. For this specific seminar, two scholarships are available for anyone who is seeking the support, who would like to attend, but who may have difficulty for financial reasons. The value of each scholarship assessed at $750, and takes half of the price off of the seminar for you. There are only two of these available, so if anyone is interested in attending this retreat, the one in Toronto Canada has scholarships available.

Email the organizers at info@beyondaffairs.com and let them know you want to take advantage of the scholarships but do it NOW because it is first come, first served, and this information is being disseminated in other places also.

Wishing all the best, always, to anyone going through this. With a heart to help.

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If you knew someone was being cheated on…would you tell?


This came up as a side conversation with some women I know. The idea came about that friends should have ground rules around whether they would, or would not want to know if their spouse was cheating, and if they would want their friends to tell them. I learned that some friends have pacts around this very thing, while some are angered at the thought of a friend telling them. What would you want?

Personally, if a friend knew my husband was cheating, I would want to know. That was the case for me even before he cheated, back when I never thought it was possible. I would want to know because I want to be in control of where I am and why in my life and if someone is cheating, I either need to exit or figure it out. I don’t ever want to be in the dark.

So tonight as I am browsing Facebook, this video comes across my feed. It’s a “just for laughs” gag that involved a cheating boss. The secretaries are being pranked into thinking their boss is committing adultery in his office and then his wife shows up. Will they tell her, or protect the boss? Watch what they all do, and then I would love to hear your comments on what you think you would have done…and as the spouse, what you would have wanted the secretary to do…

Getting it off my chest


I started this blog as a means of reaching out to other betrayed spouses, in the midst of my own pain and healing journey.  I’ve always found that helping others is a great way to also help yourself. As my story was unfolding, bit by bit, I would blog in order to obtain support, but […]

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Toronto Affair Recovery Seminar


I am often asked “if you could pick one thing that propelled you forward in your healing, what would that one thing be?” Hands down, it was attending the “healing from affairs” weekend with Anne and Brian Bercht. Anne and Brian are affair recovery specialists. They have helped hundreds and hundreds of couples heal their […]

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Inside the mind of a mistress


I’ve just spent an hour sitting at the computer watching You Tube.  While seeking out some resources for a member of my local support group that I run, I came across a Dr. Phil episode whose topic was “Inside the mind of a mistress”.  As always, I was intrigued. Thoughts and comments always welcome. Parts […]

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Jumping on the betrayed-wife-bashing bandwagon

A further "Fuck you" to the betrayed wife

I get it…when people are from different sides of an argument, it is hard to see and accept the other side’s views.  With infidelity, like any other highly emotional and charged topic, it becomes even harder.  I struggled a great deal and did a lot of work in order to be able to see and […]

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Lifting the veil of taboo

The taboo of infidelity

Why is infidelity such a taboo topic? Why are we all so keen to portray marriage as perfect bliss, with no problems? Why are we so ashamed to admit that there are issues like this exist in a marriage? Why does no one EVER want to talk about it?Why is there such judgment about it? […]

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Using grief for good


Have you heard the concept that the act of smiling releases “happy hormones” that can actually alter the way someone feels? Researchers suggest that when feeling down, that one force oneself to smile because the act of smiling has been proven to improve mood. Interesting. Along a similar vein, I’ve also heard that the best […]

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How brazen of her


***This post is being misunderstood and so it behoves me to put this disclaimer at the top so that the same misunderstanding doesn’t continue. This post and the analogies it outlines have nothing to do with the wayward spouse’s choice, their decision making, or explaining their behavior. This post, is instead about YOU the betrayed […]

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Changes to the blog


I have just bought the domain “rescuing my marriage”.  What does this mean to you? Likely not much, except that you no longer have to remember the URL as http://www.rescuingmymarriage.wordpress.com.  From now on, it will simply be http://www.rescuingmymarriage.com If you have bookmarked this blog URL, please make the change.  Otherwise, you should be redirected automatically!  […]

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