Amazing opportunity for a betrayed wife

As many of you know who read my blog, I coach other women who are experiencing the pain and trauma of an affair with Anne and Brian Bercht.

Anne and Brian are professional affair recovery specialists. who’s guided, gentle approach has helped hundreds and hundreds of couples, and betrayed wives heal from the pain of an affair.

Whether you are looking to reconcile your marriage, or whether you have already turned away from that possibility, you as a betrayed partner will still need to heal, whether with or without your partner by your side.
They created a program specifically oriented towards the distinct needs of the betrayed spouse, called the “take your life back” retreat. I blogged about it a few posts back, so I will not reiterate to heavily what the program is about, but I do encourage you to visit their website at

I know that the readers of this blog come from around the world. For those in Canada, and more specifically from Toronto, there is a retreat taking place this coming weekend April 12-14, 2014 in Toronto Canada. For this specific seminar, two scholarships are available for anyone who is seeking the support, who would like to attend, but who may have difficulty for financial reasons. The value of each scholarship assessed at $750, and takes half of the price off of the seminar for you. There are only two of these available, so if anyone is interested in attending this retreat, the one in Toronto Canada has scholarships available.

Email the organizers at and let them know you want to take advantage of the scholarships but do it NOW because it is first come, first served, and this information is being disseminated in other places also.

Wishing all the best, always, to anyone going through this. With a heart to help.

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  1. Anne and Brian coach couple where the unfaithful spouse is a good person who meant their wedding vows but got Themselves involved in an affair. Posters who trash couples for working their marriage out towards healing don’t understand this key part. The OW in my case has spent 30 years stalking and injecting herself into dozens marriages until the husband often has an affair with her. It is the only affair these husbands have ever had and they were hunted for years before getting involved with her. The pain is intense and only a betrayed spouse can understand, but if the unfaithful partner (who is truly regretful) is willing to do all the hard work and take responsibility for their actions, find out why they had the affair, work on themselves and affair prevention….then most marriages can be healed. These are the kind of unfaithful spouses who are worth fighting for.

  2. Would LOVE to go but too far away! :(

  3. Marathongypsy says:

    mistresses feel the pain too of not being with the man they risked their happiness to be with despite his promises to leave the wife. For me I now fill my life with activities to take my mind away from the hurt that they both caused me. I had to suffer her texts and emails and his lies. Mistresses have feelings too.

    • I don’t think anyone refutes the fact that mistresses have feelings. They are human beings. The fact is that they made immoral choices to try and steal a married man from his family and that has consequences. What did you “risk” exactly? Yes, I’m sure the wife had a lot to say once she found out about you…and probably not the kindest things, but is her reaction unjustified given the circumstances? Why do OW think it’s ok to walk into a marriage and sleep with a man whose promised to another and then act all surprised when the wife reacts. Is it rocket science? Would you react differently if it were reversed?

  4. There are other places to go for sympathy, Marathongypsy. You’ll find little to none from betrayed spouses. Of course the wife reacted negatively, and her reaction is justified. If all you had to deal with were some texts and emails then consider yourself lucky, no matter how angry
    and hurtful they were. I can promise you, nothing an OW or OM suffers comes close to the pain a betrayed spouse experiences. It’s a brutal pain that can’t be described to someone who hasn’t experienced it. That kind of pain begets anger and rage. Being on the receiving end of it… well, that’s often one of the consequences of the choice made by those who betray their spouses, and for the affair partners as well.
    You were willing to have an affair with a married man. No matter how you may try to justify it, that is not okay. There is a woman who suffers deeply because of what you and her husband did. The only suffering I have sympathy for is hers.

  5. Appreciate your work, and your recommendation of Anne Bercht…we use the material on her website to help train our own peer counselors. She seems like a phenomenal woman, as do you for your bravery and wisdom.

    The author of Chatty Chicky referred me to you and says hi! I don’t know how to contact you privately but would love to connect to share ideas and resources. We’re always seeking ideas on how to raise funds, too, and sometimes a conversation can propel us in a new direction….

    Laura S.
    Exec Director
    Infidelity Counseling Network

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